When you are asked about an opinion … It tests your social acceptability

When you are asked about an opinion ….. It tests your social acceptability

Question:
You met a friend of yours one day on a street. He wore new clothes that day, while in your point of view, you didn’t think it looked good, it was a bit queer and definitely not a style match with him well.



When you are asked about your opinion on his clothes, how will you react on his question?

A. You would appreciate his style whatever he wore.

B. Giggle when he doesn’t look at your face, and say you don’t know much of fashion.

C. Tell him what you feel exactly. Despite people tends to wear brown, you have a bad conscience if you don’t tell him the truth.

D. Consider his mood when he asks the question. Tell him your opinion unobjectionably and considerately.

Find the best answer that suits you the most. The answer can show how you treat people, and how is your social acceptability.

Let’s see the answer now:

A. You just simply appreciate others without telling you true feeling. You think “express admiration” is the best social skill. Although others will feel happy to hear it, others normally can’t feel your heart deeply. Apparently, you are doing so well among friends, but it is not real.

B. It seems that you are being so negative and passive all the time. You can’t build up a good network, and you are so frightened to tell others your feelings, you tend to relate badly with peoples. You friendship easily fail through diffidence.

C. Tell your friend exactly how you feel, it sounds good when he receives it with open mind or he is sincerely convinced, it also makes a really good impression and trusts between you two. But you should bear in mind that others may feel repulsion for your honesty.

D. In the eyes of others, you are objective and self-possessed. But sometimes, it is a bit dispassionate, and your stand is too clear and sharp, it hurts others’ feelings. You are a kind of people who would easily separate yours world from others’ world, and you world should not be intervened by others’.

Learn skills to overcome your weakness, then you can deal with peoples easily and happily.